Return to site

How to SLAY your Goals in 5 Easy Steps

The Goal Setting 101 to Becoming A High Achiever

· Goal Setting

Imagine being clear about your business? Imagine knowing what your main objective at work for today should be? Imagine you already knew what you wanted to achieve by the end of today? Or perhaps the end of the week or month...or even year?

If you want to succeed, you need to set goals. Without goals you lack focus and DIRECTION. Goal setting not only allows you to take control of your life's direction; it also provides you a benchmark for determining whether you are actually succeeding at it.

Think about this: Earning 10 Million Dollars is proof of your success - if one of your goals is to make lots of money. Whoop! Whoops - (That's some cool cash baby). But If your goal is to actually create impact as a coach, having very few clients to coach, with no tractable results of your impact - is revelation of the work you still need to do to achieve success in that area.

To accomplish your goals, you need to know how to SET them.

You can't simply say, "I want" and expect it to happen.

Goal setting is a process that starts with careful consideration of what you want to achieve, and ends with a lot of hard work to actually do it. In between there are some very well-defined steps that transcend the specifics of each goal. Knowing these steps will allow you to formulate goals that you can truly accomplish.

1. Set Goals That Motivate You

When you set goals for yourself, it is important that they motivate you: this means making sure that they are important to you, and that there is value in achieving them. If you have little interest in the outcome, or they are irrelevant given the larger picture, then the chances of you putting in the work to make them happen are slim.

Motivation is key to achieving goals.

Set goals that relate to the high priorities in your life. Without this type of focus, you can end up with far too many goals, leaving you too little time to devote to each one. Goal achievement requires commitment, so to maximize the likelihood of success, you need to feel a sense of urgency and have an "I must do this" attitude. When you don't have this, you risk putting off what you need to do to make the goal a reality. This in turn leaves you feeling disappointed and frustrated with yourself, both of which are de-motivating. And you can end up in a very destructive "I can't do anything or be successful at anything" frame of mind.


To make sure your goal is motivating, write down why it's valuable and important to you. Ask yourself, "If I were to share my goal with others, what would I tell them to convince them it was a worthwhile goal?" You can use this motivating value statement to help you if you start to doubt yourself or lose confidence in your ability to actually make the goal happen.

2. Design SMART Goals

The simple fact is that for goals to be powerful, they should be designed to be SMART. Your goals should be:

  • Specific.
  • Measurable.
  • Attainable.
  • Relevant.
  • Time Bound.

Set Specific Goals

Your goal must be clear and well defined. Vague or generalized goals are unhelpful because they don't provide sufficient direction. Remember, you need goals to show you the way. Make it as easy as you can to get where you want to go by defining precisely where you want to end up.

Set Measurable Goals

Include precise amounts, dates, and so on in your goals so you can measure your degree of success. If your goal is simply defined as "To reduce expenses" how will you know when you have been successful? In one month's time if you have a 1 percent reduction or in two years' time when you have a 10 percent reduction? Without a way to measure your success you miss out on the celebration that comes with knowing you have actually achieved something.

Set Attainable Goals

Make sure that it's possible to achieve the goals you set. If you set a goal that you have no hope of achieving, you will only demoralize yourself and erode your confidence.

However, resist the urge to set goals that are too easy. Accomplishing a goal that you didn't have to work hard for can be anticlimactic at best. By setting realistic yet challenging goals, you hit the balance you need. These types of goals require you to "raise the bar" and they bring the greatest personal satisfaction.

Set Relevant Goals

Goals should be relevant to the direction you want for your life, career or business. By keeping goals aligned with this, you'll develop the focus you need to get ahead and do what you want. Set widely scattered and inconsistent goals, and you'll fritter your time – and your life – away.

Set Time-Bound Goals

You goals must have a deadline. Again, this means that you know when you can celebrate success. When you are working on a deadline, your sense of urgency increases and achievement will come that much quicker.

3. List the Goals in Writing

The physical act of writing down a goal makes it real and tangible. You have no excuse for forgetting about it. As you write, use the word "will" instead of "would like to" or "might." For example, "I will speak at 10 high paying conferences this year," not "I would like to speak at 10 high paying conferences this year." The first goal statement has power and you can "see" yourself get paid to speak, the second lacks passion and gives you an excuse if you get sidetracked.


Tip 1:

Frame your goal statement positively. If you want to improve your retention rates say, "I will earn $10,000 extra for the next quarter" rather than "I will try to earn more money for next quarter." The first one is motivating; the second one still has a get-out clause "allowing" you to succeed even if you earn just $2 extra.


Tip 2:

If you use a To-Do List - make yourself a To-Do List template that has your goals at the top of it. Post your goals in visible places to remind yourself every day of what it is you intend to do today. Put them on your walls, desk, computer monitor, bathroom mirror or refrigerator as a constant reminder.

4. Make an Action Plan

This step is often missed in the process of goal setting. You get so focused on the outcome that you forget to plan all of the steps that are needed along the way. By writing out the individual steps, and then crossing each one off as you complete it, you'll realize that you are making progress towards your ultimate goal. This is especially important if your goal is big and demanding, or long-term.

5. Stick With It!

Easy? Nah! Many people lack the stick-with-it-ness. Remember, goal setting is an ongoing activity not just a means to an end. Build in reminders to keep yourself accountable, track the step by step accomplishments, and make regular time-slots available to review your goals....and Repeat. Make sure the relevance, value, and necessity remain high.

Key Takeaway

Goal setting is much more than simply saying you want something to happen. Unless you clearly define exactly what you want and understand why you want it the first place, your odds of success will be greatly reduced.

So, what will you decide to accomplish today or this week? Share with us at our new 24 Hour Social Hub THE BRAG CLUB CAFE on Facebook. It's Goal Listing Monday. WhooHoo!

Do You Want to Slay the Rest of Your 2017 Goals with Confidence?

Join other Influencers at THE BRAG CLUB Today for only $7 per Month & Take advantage of our 90% Founding Member Discount HERE to receive Founder Alex Okoroji's signature Audio Blueprint for Success - THE BRAG Factor & all our BRAG Essentials.

All Posts

Almost done…

We just sent you an email. Please click the link in the email to confirm your subscription!